Locked down queer love: intimate queer online relationships during the COVID-19 pandemic

Jonalou S. Labor*, Augustus Ceasar Latosa

*Corresponding author for this work

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Abstract

Gay couples who have been displaced by the COVID-19 pandemic had to work with communication platforms so that they could process and proceed with their relationships. Using the notion of romantic intimacy as mediated and socially processed information, interviews were analysed in order to describe twelve (12) gay couples’ enacted communication in order to approximate interpersonal romance. Results have shown that gay couples communicate affective, cognitive, and non-physical intimacies to establish commitment and mutuality. Affective intimacies include posting daily updates about daily routines, using words of affirmation through texts and app messages, and uploading short video clips. Cognitive intimacy is shown through discussions of health, social, and relationship issues. Non-physical intimacy includes viewing each other’s daily activities, dining together and engaging in online sex. Technological platforms have continued to enable relational intimacies not only to augment relationship sustenance but also to reinforce a nuanced yet global form of mobile affection. The time spent communicating with each other, coupled with the enacted intimacies, and the sense of commitment and mutuality, led to a well-spent locked down and long-distance romantic relationships.

Original languageEnglish
JournalJournal of Gender Studies
Volume31
Issue6
Pages (from-to)770-781
Number of pages12
ISSN0958-9236
DOIs
Publication statusPublished - 2022
Externally publishedYes

Keywords

  • COVID 19
  • LGBTQ
  • mediation
  • romantic intimacy
  • social information processing

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